Tim Curfman

Tim Curfman is a frequent contributor to OutSmart Magazine.
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Naughty Little Kittens: How Meditation Helps Us Deal With Our Primitive Urges

I allow myself to sink into the comfort of…Isn’t there cake in the fridge? I think there is. It’s chocolate,…

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Dawn of the Donald: An Open Letter to the Honorable President-elect

I am writing you as a born-and-bred, died-in-the-wool, Ann-Richards-admiring, Hillary-loving, out-loud-and-Proud, yellow-dog-Democrat. I did not vote for you. I’m not…

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Tall Tales of Texas Terror: A Babysitter with a Hook, a Possessed Cat, and the Undead

Halloween is a chance to celebrate the stylish, the garish, and the outlandish. It’s a time when the veil between…

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But I Already Have a Mother: How My Mother-in-Law Crowbarred Her Way into My Heart

It is the summer of 1996. I am 28 years old and have recently moved in with Jim, my boyfriend…

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My Muddy Valentine: Sometimes Love Means Getting Your Hands Dirty

My husband and I are staring with bugged-out eyes at the sight before us: our new 38’ x 14’ cedar…

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Do or Diet

A gay man looks down on his belly and declares, “This has got to go!"

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Don We Now Our Gay Apparel: How To Throw An Epic Gay Holiday Party

By Tim Curfman As the LGBTQ community becomes more and more accepted in the mainstream, there is a strong danger…

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Business Partners: Can a Gay Couple Run a Business Together Without Emotion Getting in the Way?

This is the story of me and my husband, Jim, and our attempt to create and run a business together.

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‘I Now Pronounce You Husband and . . . er . . . um . . . Other Husband’

A gay couple of 19 years considers legal marriage, and faces an onslaught of conflicting emotions.

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