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by Lilly Roddy

Venus, planet of love, beauty, and sweets gets back on track after the 21st, just in time for Thanksgiving overindulgences. That should make everybody's relationships better. There is a Lunar Eclipse on the 19th in the sign of Taurus. We all may want more stability in our lives during that full moon phase. It is an active and busy month with many people really ready for the upcoming holidays. Days to overeat are the 3rd, 4th, 9th, 10th, 11th, 13th, 24th, 27th, and the 30th. Days for fasting are the 5th, 16th, and the 17th. Most all of the planets this month are in fire or air signs, especially close to Thanksgiving. This is not going to produce the most grounded time for the holiday and families, but it certainly will keep things from being dull.

ARIES (March 21-April 19). You are taking things more personal lately. And you may even find that you are more withdrawn, even hibernating. You are in a very introspective place, and this is not familiar ground for you. The only place you are feeling connected is with your relationship partner, and things are edgy there, too. Don't draw a fight to you just to get some attention. You may get attention, but it will be negative. Closer to TG Day, your spirits begin to pick up. Invite a lot of people over and enjoy the distractions.

TAURUS (April 20-May 20). Relationships are spotlighted this month for you. And your relationships have to add to your sense of independence and freedom, or you are going to feel that you are trapped. Make sure that you and your current partner are in the same pasture. Even work relationships can have this tone. Your boss may be making demands on you that you don't think are fair. You should keep your schedule easy, open, and light. This will be exceptionally true during the week prior to TG Day. You are walking around not knowing where you are going and what is expected of you. Don't worry. Most of us feel this way naturally.

GEMINI (May 21-June 21). It's heath and work month for you. While we are all at the TG table, you will have some task to take care of that only you can do. One part of you will feel so important, and the other part will be hungry. There are lots of small fires to put out at work this month. And everyone will be waiting for the other person to make the first move. You can start your exercise and health regime before the holidays, and even a trip to the doctor for a checkup would be good for you. As the holiday rounds the corner, you are really ready to share this time with a partner. If you don't have a permanent one, see if you can rent one for the holidays. You will be glad you did.

CANCER (June22-July 22). You will find yourself pulled in several different directions this month. First, a part of you wants to take the month off and just immerse yourself in all the holiday festivities. In fact, you will want to do this for the next two months. Another part of you is very busy at work, and you know that you should be paying attention to your work and your clients. There are some projects around the house, and they must get done. Where will you fit those in? And in the very back of your brain, you are wondering where your spirituality is. This will have you questioning your existence on the planet. I suggest eating out at someone else's house on TG Day.

LEO (July 23-August 22). The new play for this month is Home and Family: Existential Dialectics in the Modern World. If your family yells in the forest, and you are not there to hear them, are they really yelling? Are they really whining if your guilt factors are not stimulated? You still seem like you are that happy-go-lucky Sun Child, but your juices may be used to baste the turkey. And your loyalties will be tested between anyone who is your partner and your family. Avoid the guilt potholes in the road. You will certainly feel more energetic by the 1st of next month.

VIRGO (August 23-September 22). This is a great month to contact people from your early childhood or your brothers and sisters. You are very interested in making contacts with your past and at least with your memories. And you will be chatty this month. No subject will be taboo or one that you are not well informed about. Your home is the gathering place for all peoples and cultures for the TG holidays. The home fires will burn strongly in your heart. You need a break from work. You have been pushing too hard. After TG, you will be ready to get back to the Sequin Mines.

LIBRA (September 23-October 23). Money and personal resources make your list for the holidays. Even though most people don't know this about you, relationships are such an emotional investment for you. And that is why you work so hard to make the partnership so successful. You are getting your money in order and planning ahead for the next year. You are considering raising your prices or fees, or asking for that raise. You are very open and friendly for the holidays. Some people are unhappy with the old traditions, but you love the way they feel. And you are not afraid to let others know what you think.

SCORPIO (October 24-November 21). With Venus retrograding through your sign during your birthday time, you are particularly introspective. You may not feel very connected to the people in your life. And you will be contemplating what value you have in their lives. And you may come up very short. Don't be surprised if you have had to put more effort into your relationships than you have gotten back. This time of realization will prompt you to do something about this as December begins. You will not go without love for this next birthday year.

SAGITTARIUS (November 22-December 21). This is always the time of the year you are in retreat, reserving your energy and stamina. You are extra sensitive to people and their emotions during this month. You just feel their not-so-hidden agenda. And you don't know why they continue to pretend that no one is on to them. You have really been working on yourself this year, confronting fears, losses, and unobtained goals. And now you are resting, getting ready for TG day and your own personal coming out as your birthday time gets closer. You can rely on friends this month to help you finish those special projects.

CAPRICORN (December 22-January 19). You continue to remain in your element this month. You are taking charge at work and at home. No project moves forward unless you have okayed it. And no turkey is sliced without your approval. And what a great month to do some networking, particularly with groups and organizations that you have been active with in the past. You will feel like a queen, as they are so ready for your invigorating presence. You may stir some jealousy and competition around you. Ask them to be on your team so you have no one out there working against you. As TG holidays come, take some time to rest.

AQUARIUS (January 20-February 18). You are a force to be dealt with this month. You are creating a commotion wherever you go. You might as well enjoy it and get over that "I'm gonna be trapped" feeling. You are trapped if you are on the outside, too. Career is wonderfully highlighted this month. Some of you are questioning your choice, but as you should. As we get closer to TG day, you are more inclined to integrate yourself in a group and shy away from the glare of the spotlight. But IT returns in December.

PISCES (February 19-March 20). You are in a break time. It is a perfect time for getting out of town, shifting those conventional patterns, taking a class, or visiting your favorite getaway spot. Avoid work and all responsibility. As TG Day gets closer, you are being pulled back to your familiar positions of responsibility, of taking care of the Universe and everyone in it. Make sure you are sharing this blessed part of yourself with intelligent beings who have an ability to appreciate it. Check your family's ids. They may not be who they say they are.

Houston-based astrologer Lilly Roddy can reached at lillycath@aol.com or www.hermesfoot.com.