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Leather-Leather Land
Miss America without
Bert Parks and with a few more harnesses
? A report from this year's International
Mr. Leather Weekend by a sympathetic observer
to the scene
by Mekado Murphy
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Some will say that International Mr. Leather weekend in Chicago represents
freedom of expression. Others may say the event
brings plenty of forward-moving ideas to a gay
community that once had repression as its norm.
And yet others might hold up IML as a symbol for
a new kind of tolerance: leather as the next frontier
of acceptance. Lofty sentiments all, and all valid
and true.
But the bottom (and top) line of
IML is Š sex. Kinky, crazy, extreme, passionate sex. Sex beyond limits. Sex at
its most carnal. The realm of infinite sexual possibility permeates this annual
Chicago event and that's what brings a throng of 20,000 men and women back year
after year to celebrate.
So how did
this reporter clad in khaki pants and a pair of Vans function in a world of
studded studs and collared slaves? With eyes wide open and mouth agape. The
leather community is a thrilling and diverse one, and this year's IML weekend,
May 2426, seemed to leave no stone unturned in the display of sexual variety
within its walls. Plus, it was filled with its share of charming guys, many in
competition for the big title. Take this year's newly crowned International Mr.
Leather, Dallas' Stephen Weber. He's a man so cute and huggable that he defies
any gruff S&M stereotypes‹but one gets the sense that he can turn it on
when the need arises.
To the dismay
of ultra-conservative groups like Concerned Women of America (who aired their
anti-leather grievances on a local radio show), this year's event took place
downtown at the high-profile Hyatt Regency. Seeing the preppy tourists on
Michigan Avenue walking alongside tall leather daddies was quite a kick. And
the hotel was nothing but courteous to its rawhide-and-jockstrap-wearing
guests. The lobby with its open bar was a high visibility place to meet and
greet throughout the weekend.
The event
that draws the largest crowd (and the most gasps) each year is the Leather
Market, which covered most every fetish element of the scene. Many of the
vendors (and plenty of attendees) donned minimalist leather gear, and it was
not uncommon to pass by guys demonstrating how restraint tables work, or
testing out certain paddles and whips on eager participants. It could be the
one single place in the world where you could purchase a wooden dildo, a
catheter, a rubber suit, tit clamps, and even a video about sex with eels.
Competitors for the International Mr. Bootblack competition had chairs set up
in back for a nice firm thorough boot polishing.
During the
course of the well-planned weekend, I met members of the group Masters And
slaves Together ("slaves" purposefully and cleverly written in all lowercase).
Also the IML Boy gathering, whose members intelligently and eloquently
discussed their servitude, about the differences between boys (basically
freelance submissives) and slaves (basically property). Their stories about how
they discovered their "boy"-hood are parallel to the stories about how
mainstream queers discovered their homosexuality. There typically wasn't a time
when they felt like they "changed" into a boy, but just possessed a general
feeling deep down inside that that's what they were.
The appeal of
IML drew a wealth of other interesting gay social groups to the area, filling
Chicago's Boy's Town bars to the brim. Alongside the leather boys, the Great
Lakes Bears played host to Bear Pride events, even more significantly
increasing the city's chest hair quotient for the weekend. And most everywhere
one turned was a porn star to be found. They varied from old school stars like
Zak Spears browsing in the Leather Market, to current stars like Michael Lucas
doing a little bit of obvious cruising himself. The greatest porn star
sighting, however, occurred in the restroom after the IML competition. While
finishing up, I heard a somewhat loud, prideful, and familiar voice coming from
two stalls down. Looking over, I noticed it was none other than Jeff Stryker.
Try quelling feelings of inadequacy when standing next to Stryker at the
urinal.
The many
events and distractions of the weekend all culminated in Sunday night's
competition. The glamour and pageantry of International Mr. Leather was quite
extraordinary. It's essentially Miss America without Bert Parks and with a few
more harnesses. The competitors have causes and ambitions, there is a physique
(a la swimsuit) competition, and participants are required to use some
intelligence and public speaking skills to show brains are as sexy as brawn.
Heading into the competition, Stephen Weber was one of the most buzzed-about
contestants.
"I really
worked the entire state and got out into the leather community, the rest of the
GLBT communities, and some of our pansexual communities," Weber said at the IML
press conference. "I wanted them to know who I was as a person. And it's
interesting. They all had the expectations that when I came here, I would be coming
back with the title. I'm very grateful for what they've done."
The contest
was held at the Congress Theater, a classic space on Chicago's West side that
is now owned by IML. The lengthy (four-plus hours!) pomp and circumstance
included speeches from the top 20 finalists. And no, they weren't editorials on
the benefits of handcuffs. Rather, these heartfelt and thoughtful commentaries
ranged from current events to ways to enrich life. As the leather community is
filled with a number of working professionals (financial consultant by day, pig
bottom by night), it was no surprise that their presentations were of depth and
substance.
One energetic
highlight was an appearance from CeCe Peniston, who emerged from many MIA years
to do a few of her club hits, including that gay anthem of the '90s, "Finally."
She got the crowd moving, and threatened to "take a whip" to some of the less
participatory attendees.
The contest
culminated in awarding top honors to Weber. Though a few other Texans competed,
Weber was the man with the charms who won the hearts of both judges and crowd.
He pledged to make the most of his title and use it to make a difference in
places large and small over the year.
And thus
another chapter in the IML book is closed. Overall, the experience was pretty
extraordinary. But it was tough to feel a complete part of things not being
adorned in the gear. It seems the leather community is definitely willing to
accept diversity within its walls, whether you are a bear, into rubber,
bootblacking, or more contemporary forms of leather. But if you're a mere
visitor to the scene, it may not be quite as easy for you to join the party.
Nonetheless, it was a fun, educational, wild experience in the windy city. And
its success should give way to an even larger, kinkier crowd next year for
IML's 25th Anniversary Blowout.
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