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Community
Portrait: Iris Greer Sizemore
Gathering
together feminist women for over 25 years.
by
Susan Lovejoy
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"What
brought you here?" Laura asked the
members of the Womens Group, an assortment
of women of various ages and ethnicities who have
met each Sunday at 10:45 a.m. at the Universalist
Unitarian Church on Fannin for the past 25 years.
"Iris snagged me." "Ive been
going on and off for 20 years." "My
therapist recommended the group to me." "I
learned about the group through the church."
" I met Iris at the feminist convention at
Rice." "Iris found me at a bookstore."
As
the women introduced themselves, Iris flitted
around the room sitting in a chair, then getting
up to pass out flyers or Xeroxed newspaper articles
concerning women. Her striped button-down shirt
had not been buttoned correctly and she occasionally
had to tuck it back in her pantsthis did
not seem to faze her.
Iris
Greer Sizemore is the founder and facilitator of the 25-year-old Womens
Group. Her way of both empowering women and helping
women to find their own power is phenomenal. She
has been described by a longtime member as "the
engineer of a powerful train." She has a
gift of enticing women to speak to the group on
topics ranging from breast cancer to talent shows
complete with an accordion player to financial
planning.
Iris
moved to Houston in 1974 from Chicago and soon
managed the Unitarian Universalist Church bookstore.
After being exposed to writers such as Betty Friedan,
Audrey Lorde, and Adrienne Rich, she began gathering
other like-minded women, both gay and straight,
to talk about feminist literature. From these
discussions the Womens Group was born.
The
first Womens Group met in front of a fireplace
at the church in 1975. Although the members were
white and mostly from privileged backgrounds,
all were interested in defining their own vision
of feminism by defining the issues and looking
at the questions. "The group has dealt with
the issues that have shaped their lives,"
Iris said. "Rape, incest, alcoholism, and
racism are some of the big issues."
Iris
has devoted not only a part of her day-to-day
life over the past 25 years to the Womens
Group but a part of her soul as well. As she sat
in a green oversized chair at her home, her closed
eyes reflected upon the past. Her hands and facial
expression said more than her words. "I have
grown with the Womens Group," she said.
"I need the Womens Group; it is a part
of me. Its been my survival growth. I grew
and changed as the Womens Group did."
She
even met her partner, Jacsun, through the Womens
Group. Iris tells the story, smiling as Jacsun
walks into the room.
"We
met at a party for a woman turning 40," she
said, "and we invited 40 people. When Jascun
walked in, I went over to her and we talked the
whole time." For someone as active and people-oriented
as Iris, that was truly remarkable. "Iris
did not move around; she stayed in one place the
whole time," Jascun said.
Iris
and Jacsun looked at each other, their blue eyes
matching in color as the doorbell rang. Three
women came into the room, obvious Iris fansthey
were all ready to go to a movie together, to gather,
to talk.
The
Womens Group meets with a different discussion
topic or presentation every Sunday, 10:45 a.m.
at the First Unitarian Church, Room 302, 5200
Fannin (at Southmore). To find out more, www.houstonwomensgroup.com.
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