| Finding
Love in All the Right Places
Not
all churches are homophobic: Dr. Jesse Jennings
preaches universal love at his Creative Life Spiritual
Center
When
I moved to Houston in 1992, one of the first orders
of business was to find a spiritual home where
I could find acceptance and support.
One
Sunday morning, I drove out 45 North to Spring
to check out a "new-age" church Id
heard aboutthe Creative Life Spiritual Center.
I tried to stay open-minded about a church that
called itself a "center."
The
center was on the second floor of an office building.
At the top of the stairs stood a man. "Welcome,
I acknowledge the good in your life," the
stranger said and hugged me. I had no idea the
full extent of the greetings meaning. That
was the churchs minister and visionary,
the Rev. Jesse Jennings.
In
the simple service, Rev. Jennings led us in song
and meditation. His message was simple but profound:
"We are all perfect creations of God. There
is nothing you have to do, no change you have
to make, to be beloved of God."
Over
the years I have experienced this "unconditional
acceptance" at Creative Life Spiritual Center.
Not a church in the traditional way of speaking,
it is a center for spiritual discovery and growth.
Dr.
Jennings center is part of the Science of
Mind movement and the United Church of Religious
Science, founded by the American philosopher Ernest
Holmes (not to be confused with the Church of
Christ Scientists or the Christian Scientists).
Creative
Life is a place where your "affectional"
orientation is accepted fullywhere you are
welcome to display affection with your partnerhold
hands, hug, and kiss. In 1988 the United Church
of Religious Science (UCRS) issued a statement,
which said, in effect, "We do not discriminate
against anybody for any reason"which
was to be followed in both hiring and volunteer
positions. Earlier this year the UCRS authorized
its ministers to perform ceremonies honoring same-sex
unions.
Creative
Life has reached out to the Houston gay community
in several ways. They had an active AIDS care
team with FIRM, the Foundation of Interfaith Research
and Ministry. They were also a vital part of Ron
Daviss Center for Positive Living located
on Commonwealth.
"Every
Monday became Religious Science night,"
said Dr. Jennings, "and we created a fun,
high energy service that was attended by an amazingly
diverse group of people. I remember one time when
we had a student who was HIV positive and in Park
Plaza Hospital and we had class around his bed."
Dr.
Jennings writes a column read monthly by more
than 75,000 worldwide in the Science of Mind
magazine. His book The Essential Ernest Holmes
will be published in spring 2002. Church member
Jill Boullion interviewed him for OutSmart.
Thomas Chelena
Jill
Boullion: Describe what absolute unconditional
acceptance looks like?
Dr.
: Our religious science teaching is that we are
all perfect creations of God, and that there is
nothing you have to do, no change you have to
make, to be beloved of God. That you are satisfied
with how you are is all that matters. You are
harming no one just being yourself. At the same
time, if others are uncomfortable with you, its
an opportunity to hold out healing to themnot,
of course, by praying for them to change, but
by practicing understanding and forgiveness, while
refusing to be marginalized. We believe that any
act of affection between consenting adults should
be celebrated. At our spiritual center you are
embraced not in spite of, but because of, your
affectional preference.
What
is Science of Mind and when and where did it begin?
The
philosophy known today as Science of Mind had
its beginnings around 1915 when a man known as
Ernest Holmes began holding public lectures on
"mental law" and other spiritual topics.
Ernest discovered the writings of Ralph Waldo
Emerson as a young man, and then Thomas Troward,
and started his lectures based on Trowards
writings. In 1927 the Religious Science Institute
was opened and began to teach classes. Today the
Science of Mind philosophy is also an organized
church, The United Church of Religious Science.
Until his death in 1960, Ernest Holmes was a seeker
of the truth, and his teaching is recognized today
as one of the leading viewpoints in modern metaphysics.
The
issue of sexual preference within the Church of
Religious Science really doesnt exist?
We
look forward to the day when, in the words of
writer and critic Bruce Bawer, "homosexuality
becomes something of absolutely no interest whatsoever."
In the meantime, so long as divisions are drawn
between people who love those of the other gender
and people who love those of the same, we will
be working in consciousness to heal that division
by refusing to recognize that it has any right
to exist in the first place.
Weve
been performing "holy union" ceremonies
at our center since the beginning.
What
about those churches that welcome gays "in
spite of" and then wish they would change?
Well,
those are places where people are taught that
being gay is contrary to Gods will. On the
plus side, they are willing to try to look past
your affectional orientation and see who else
you might be. On the minus side, doing so discounts
a huge part of who you are. There are those who
believe that praying for gay people will make
them heterosexual. Praying for anyone else to
change into what we think they ought to be is
not only futile but also arrogant.
The
Creative Life Spiritual Center is located at 5326
Spring Stuebner Rd., 281/350-5157, www.creativelife.org.
Services are Sundays, 9 & 11 a.m.
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